How It Works

A More Considered Way to Meet

Finding a meaningful connection is not about meeting as many people as possible.
It is about being understood, finding genuine compatibility and having the opportunity to meet someone in a more personal way.

THE FIRST CONVERSATION

IT STARTS WITH A SIMPLE APPLICATION.

To begin, you complete a short application form so I can learn a little about you and what you are looking for.

I then arrange your first private consultation with me.

This usually lasts between 60 and 90 minutes and gives us the opportunity to talk properly about your life, experiences, values, lifestyle and what you hope to find in a relationship.

If you are based in London, we can meet in person.

If you live outside London, the consultation takes place online.

There is no dating profile to create and no pressure to impress.

It is simply a conversation - the first step in getting to know you.

UNDERSTANDING YOU

THIS IS WHERE WE MEET PROPERLY

We meet in person and take the time to have a proper conversation. I will ask questions, listen carefully and get to know you beyond the information you shared in your application.

This is an opportunity for me to understand who you are, what matters to you, how you live your life and what kind of person you would genuinely like to meet.

Meeting you personally is an important part of the process. It allows me to get a sense of you as a person - not just what you are looking for, but who you are and what kind of connection might truly suit you.

FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON

TAKING THE TIME TO FIND A GENUINE MATCH

This is where I begin looking within the Club for someone who may be genuinely compatible with you.

Sometimes the right person is there quite quickly. Sometimes it takes a little longer. Finding a meaningful match can take several weeks, and I will never introduce someone simply for the sake of making an introduction.

Throughout the search, I remain in contact with you and keep you updated. When I find someone I believe could be a genuinely good fit,

I will contact you personally and talk you through the next step.

A PERSONAL INTRODUCTION

WHEN I FIND THE RIGHT PERSON, I ARRANGE THE INTRODUCTION PERSONALLY

Once I believe I have found someone who could be a genuine match for you, I will contact you personally and talk you through the introduction.

I then arrange your first meeting in a carefully chosen, safe and comfortable setting, giving you both the opportunity to meet in person, have a conversation and see how you feel in each other’s company.

There is no pressure and no expectation. The purpose of the first meeting is simply to meet, talk and discover whether there is a natural connection.

SUPPORT ALONG THE WAY

YOU ARE NOT ON YOUR OWN THROUGH THE PROCESS

Throughout the process, I remain available to answer your questions, talk things through and offer guidance whenever you need it.

From time to time, I also organise private Club events and gatherings, giving members the opportunity to meet others in a relaxed and informal setting. Members are notified personally in advance whenever an event is planned.

The aim is to create more opportunities to meet people - naturally, comfortably and without the pressure of dating apps.